With a grown-up. You need: toothpicks (sharp ends: handle with care and keep away from young children), two kinds of small soft candy, marshmallows or grapes (for example, large and mini marshmallows), and a paper plate. Do not eat models after they have been handled a lot.
Part 1: molecules. Let large marshmallows be C, O or N (label them with a pencil dot code), and mini marshmallows be H. Build: H₂O (bent, about 104.5°), CO₂ (use two toothpicks side by side for each double bond; linear), CH₄ (tetrahedral: try to place the four H as far apart as possible in 3-D), and C₂H₄ (flat). Compare your angles with the lesson.
Part 2: a crystal. Use 14 large marshmallows (Cl⁻) and 13 mini ones (Na⁺). Build a 3 × 3 square layer, alternating large and small like a checkerboard (5 large and 4 small). Build a second layer with the opposite pattern (4 large, 5 small) and stack it on top so every ion sits above an ion of the other kind. Add a third layer like the first. Join neighbours with toothpicks.
What to look for: the small marshmallow in the very centre should touch 6 large ones. Count the totals: 14 large and 13 small. In a real crystal with billions of ions, the ratio becomes exactly 1 : 1.