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B. Foundations of Language · Listening, Speaking and Word Power

Choosing Precise Words: Connotation, the Thesaurus and Homographs

B2.2 B1.5About 40 minutes
Learning goals
  • I can explain that words with similar meanings can have positive, negative or neutral connotations.
  • I can use a thesaurus wisely to choose the most precise word for my meaning.
  • I can read homographs correctly by using the context.
  • I can explain how word choice changes how a reader or listener feels.

Words to know

denotation
The dictionary meaning of a word.
connotation
The feeling a word gives, positive, negative or neutral, beyond its dictionary meaning.
thesaurus
A reference book or tool that lists synonyms (and often antonyms) for words.
synonym
A word that means the same or nearly the same as another word.
homograph
A word spelled the same as another word but with a different meaning, and sometimes a different pronunciation: wind (air) and wind (turn).

Remember from Grades 3 and 4

In Grade 3 you learned homographs, words spelled the same but with different meanings (The wind is cold / Wind the clock). In Grade 4 you put synonyms in order by shades of meaning (cool → chilly → cold → freezing) and explored idioms and analogies. In Grade 5 you'll learn that words also carry feelings, called connotations, and you'll use a thesaurus carefully to pick exactly the right word.

Let's start with a puzzle

Which would you rather be called?

  • curious or nosy?
  • confident or show-off?
  • thrifty or cheap?

Each pair means almost the same thing (that's the denotation), but one word feels positive and the other feels negative. That feeling is the word's connotation.

Positive 🙂Neutral 😐Negative 🙁
curiousinterestednosy
slenderthinskinny
thriftycareful with moneycheap
confidentsure of yourselfarrogant
determinedfirmstubborn
chucklelaughsnicker
aromasmellstench
The words in each row have similar meanings, but different feelings.
aromasmellstench“the aroma of freshcinnamon buns”“What is that smell?”“the stench ofthe garbage truck”Same denotation (something you smell), different connotations
All three words name something you smell, but each carries a different feeling. A thesaurus lists them together, so you still have to choose the one that fits.

Why connotation matters

Writers and speakers choose words to make you feel a certain way. An ad might call a small apartment cozy (positive) instead of cramped (negative). A news story might call people protesters (neutral), heroes (positive) or troublemakers (negative).

When you read, notice connotations to understand how the writer feels. When you write or speak, choose connotations that match your meaning, and be fair when you describe people.

Using a thesaurus wisely

A thesaurus gives you a list of synonyms, but synonyms are not exact copies. Follow three steps:

  1. Look up your word and read the list.
  2. Pick a word you know, or check its meaning in a dictionary.
  3. Put it in your sentence and ask: Does it mean exactly what I want? Does it have the right connotation?

For example, a thesaurus lists smell, scent, aroma, odour, stench together. "The stench of fresh cinnamon buns" sounds wrong, because stench is a bad smell!

Homographs: read with the context

Remember, homographs are spelled the same but are different words. Some even sound different. In Grade 5 texts, watch for these:

HomographMeaning 1Meaning 2
recordREC-ord (noun): a best result: a world recordre-CORD (verb): to save sound or data: record a song
presentPRES-ent (noun): a gift; (adjective) here nowpre-SENT (verb): to show or give: present your project
objectOB-ject (noun): a thingob-JECT (verb): to disagree: I object!
desertDES-ert (noun): a dry placede-SERT (verb): to abandon, to leave someone or something behind
minuteMIN-it (noun): 60 secondsmy-NOOT (adjective): very tiny
leadLEED (verb): to go firstLED (noun): a soft grey metal
For many two-syllable homographs, the noun is stressed on the first syllable and the verb on the second.
REC-ord (noun)re-CORD (verb)RECordreCORDa world recordrecord a songOB-ject (noun)ob-JECT (verb)a thing: “What is that object?”to disagree: “I object!”
In many homograph pairs, the noun stresses the first syllable and the verb stresses the second. The bigger box shows the stressed syllable.
Worked example

Let's choose words with the right connotation

Mia is writing a thank-you note to a neighbour who shovelled their driveway after a snowstorm: "Thank you for being so ______ (pushy / helpful / nosy). You showed up at 7 a.m. with your shovel!"

  1. Denotation check: all three could describe someone who gets involved.
  2. Connotation check: pushy and nosy are negative. helpful is positive.
  3. Purpose: a thank-you note should make the neighbour feel appreciated.
  4. Thesaurus upgrade: helpful is good. A thesaurus also suggests generous, kind, thoughtful. Generous fits well because the neighbour gave time and effort for free.

"Thank you for being so generous." (or helpful): a positive word that fits the purpose.

Worked example

Let's read a homograph

Read: Our class will present our science fair project to the parents next Friday.

  1. Present could be PRES-ent (a gift; here now) or pre-SENT (to show).
  2. Context: will present our project to the parents. This is something the class will do, so it's a verb.
  3. Say it: pre-SENT.

pre-SENT: to show or give the project to an audience.

Just for fun

Riddle: How can you present a present in the present?

Hand someone a gift right now! (Three words, same spelling, three different jobs.)

Connotation detective question

When you read a describing word about a person, ask: Is this word making me like them, dislike them, or neither? Then ask: Why did the writer choose it?

Hands-on activity

Connotation sorting line

You need: three sheets of paper labelled 🙂 Positive, 😐 Neutral and 🙁 Negative, laid on the floor in a line, plus 15 slips of paper and a pencil.

  1. Write these words on slips: curious, nosy, interested, stubborn, determined, firm, chuckle, snicker, laugh, cozy, cramped, small, aroma, stench, smell.
  2. Read each slip aloud and put it on the sheet where its feeling belongs. Groups of three go together (one positive, one neutral, one negative).
  3. With a grown-up, check a thesaurus (print or online) for the word walk. Act out five synonyms (stroll, march, stomp, tiptoe, wander) and decide which ones feel positive, neutral or negative in different situations.
  4. Bonus: say one sentence about the family pet (or a pretend pet) twice: once with positive words and once with negative words.

Answers: positive: curious, determined, chuckle, cozy, aroma; neutral: interested, firm, laugh, small, smell; negative: nosy, stubborn, snicker, cramped, stench. (Some people may place a word differently; ask your child to explain their choice.)

Your turn

1

What is the difference between denotation and connotation?

2

Which has a more positive connotation: stubborn or determined?

3

Give a neutral word for aroma and stench.

4

Read: The singer will record a new album. How do you say record, and what does it mean?

5

Why should you check a word from a thesaurus before using it?

6

A real estate ad calls a house "charming and snug." Another person might call it "old and tiny." What is the ad trying to do?

7

Read: There is a minute crack in the windshield. How do you say minute, and what does it mean?

More practice: warm-up

1

Is chuckle positive, neutral or negative?

2

What tool lists synonyms?

3

Is skinny positive, neutral or negative?

4

What is a homograph?

5

Choose the positive word: cramped or cozy.

More practice: on your own

1

Rewrite with a more positive connotation: My little brother is so nosy about my science project.

2

Read: The soldiers did not desert their posts during the blizzard. How do you say desert and what does it mean?

3

Two news headlines: "Students Demand Longer Recess" and "Students Ask for Longer Recess." How do demand and ask make you feel differently about the students?

4

A thesaurus lists these synonyms for big: large, huge, enormous, hefty, bulky. Which fits best: The blue whale is the ______ animal on Earth. (Hint: what is the superlative form?)

5

Write two sentences using object as a noun and as a verb.

Challenge

1

Describe the same dog twice in one sentence each: once making it sound lovable and once making it sound annoying. Underline (or name) the words that changed the connotation.

2

Explain why writers of news reports should choose neutral words when describing people in an argument.

3

Read aloud correctly and explain: The lead singer wore a vest made of lead-coloured fabric.

Check your understanding

Quiz

1.

What is connotation?

2.

Which word has a negative connotation?

3.

Which word has a positive connotation?

4.

What should you do after finding a word in a thesaurus?

5.

In Please present your project, how is present said?

6.

Which tool lists synonyms?

For parents and teachers

Big idea (B2.2): Grade 5 students demonstrate an understanding of a variety of words. Connotation, careful thesaurus use and homographs help them understand words precisely when reading and choose words precisely when writing and speaking (B1.5).

How to help at home:

  • Notice connotation in ads and headlines: "Why do you think they used cozy instead of small?"
  • Keep a thesaurus handy for homework, and ask your child to explain why they chose a word.
  • Play "positive/negative": describe the weather or a meal both ways.

Common difficulties:

  • Choosing the fanciest thesaurus word even when it doesn't fit. Ask, "Does it mean exactly what you want?"
  • Not noticing negative connotation when describing people. Talk about fairness and kindness in word choice.
  • Reading homographs the first way they learned. Encourage rereading the sentence and asking "Is it a thing or an action?"