You need: paper, a pencil, and about 30 toothpicks, cotton swabs or pennies.
Part 1: Pattern hunt (10 minutes). Walk around your home with a grown-up. Look for 3 repeating patterns (floor tiles, a striped shirt, a fence, a calendar, a placemat) and 1 growing or shrinking pattern (stairs going up, a stack of cups getting taller, pages left in a book as you read). Draw or write each one. For each repeating pattern, circle the core.
Part 2: Build a growing pattern. Build Figures 1, 2 and 3 of the toothpick squares above. Count the sticks in each. Now build Figure 4. Was it 13? Describe the pattern out loud: Start at ___, add ___ each time.
Part 3: Make your own. Build a different growing pattern (for example, triangles in a row). Ask your grown-up to describe it.
What to look for: your child names the core of each repeating pattern, and says the start and the change for each growing pattern.
Grown-up note: keep small items like these away from babies and toddlers, and watch that toothpicks are handled carefully (their ends are sharp; cotton swabs are a safer swap).